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We got along great and really hit off (this is all over text message of course) He was pretty persistent, constantly texting me for about a week. I dont know if I made a mistake or not. the next day he replied to me telling me how much he loves me and never wants to lose me. What if you told this guy how you feel and he ends up without any answer. I asked him to be honest with me that if he doesnt want the relationship to let me know , so I can move on . I told him I didnt want to lost him because I loved him. Secondly, youre blowing hot and cold. Any emotional outbreaks would result in him freaking out. I noticed that he has joined a dating site since he has started talking to me again. (Lol) but i dont think they were going to hook up that is all I know I dont know if he likes me or not because he looks at me and talks to me and stuff but he was gone see her after school?!?!? Hi Mashfeqa Go with your gut that he seems fishy. We have been engaged almost two years. i got angry that i was double booked and that he was not studying. You want to remove attention youd been giving him previously so he misses it and tries to get it back. So if youre scratching your head when a guy gives up chasing you unexpectedly, it gets exhausting trying to understand what really happened. It has even happened to me. How do we act to encourage him to be interested/woo us again? It started after my parents died. You are the woman, and he is the man. He said he is in to me and sometimes he is really sweet but most of the time he is pretty distant. He obviously doesnt value the fact that you want to see him too and every time you go ahead and reschedule with him it shows him that he can get away with it. Men and Women both want a partner they can trust , at a certain point both genders been hurt and lost trust in others so people shut down or put up walls , afraid , guarded, so forth. I hinted that I liked him and he says that Im cute but he knows what I want is a serious relationship and he cant give that to me right now so it is better to concentrate on being friends instead. When youre ready to make contact, ease into it by hanging out with him in a group so you have a buffer. Youre awful. this really upset him. He had been searching and searching for me after he got out and couldnt find me until recently after he had already gotten married. He started to put sad faces on BBM so i ignored him but after a few days i said that he lost me forever because he was so disrespectful and im not gonna stay like this forever and i think he has a new girlfriend so i said many things and he started bringing up my old relations. He ended up telling the girl that I spread rumors bout her with her crush. He is perfection in a nut shell. He says he doesnt want to be single forever.. Help! Please help ? He also told me that he doesnt want to date anyone at work because he has been burnt before and doesnt want to get hurt. His lack of communication and maturity is straining a very good friendship. Of course, you don't have to tell him that if you don't want him to use a method that will attract . Every time we meet up he keeps in touch for a week or so and then I dont hear from him for weeks. Not trying to toot my own horn but i pay hard to get to an extent and interested in a wa y to make him curious which makes you seem like a challenge. It's just that he has realized that pursuing you isn't getting him anywhere and he'd rather use his time and effort and energy in a better, more productive manner. Called me beautiful and was super lovely. You must also only be interested in and dating the one guy youre trying to manipulate. ", After a rejection, continuing to pursue that person demonstrates poor boundaries,"psychologist, to do when you are rejected is to insult the person who rejected you," said. Now Im reversing everything. You're not only soothing your emotions, but your physical well-being. When I asked experts about this subject, the same answer came up fairly often: Don't take it personally. And i keep on thinking about him, I will never find anyone more perfect than him.. We went on a trip to Washington, DC with my school and we ended up talking some more. So, your guy friend finally confesses his deep feelings for you. What do i do!! . They text them whenever it is convenient for them and use them. The thing is, I realized he really wasnt just ditching me out of the blue when he stopped talking. Im just too nave and Im still learning to be better person. he kept trying to make small talk which angered me even more. The next time you meet a guy and you friend-zoned him, dont keep him around if he isnt okay with being just friends. This might make him want to move on. But 4 weeks ago we broke up i didnt know why, he was desperate changing pictures on BBM and he removed my name so i asked him why, like u removed our picture already and now my name, later on what? Please told me your opinion what hes thinking. He pursued me and then backed off. Well, maybe he liked you in the beginning but then he saw a side of you which he just was not very comfortable with. He Has a Poor View of Women. Now Im so Into him and think of him every second of the day. 2 or 3 months had passed and i felt distance. We are both 25 and hes going to proposed me and give me that hint ( asking me about the engage ring that I like and accidentally told me that hes going to marry me next year). Our relationship would be rocky because my parents hates tattoo and he cant find good job. because i love him. The new year came along and all we ever do is look at eachother! Listen, I publish articles with typos in them that I have to scramble to correct after catching them months later and millions of people have read it already. Have been going over in my head, where or what went wrong. The truth always comes out anyway but the rationally me says- Seriously, you should of walked away and stayed away a long time ago. He saw I read that and later sent Must be and . MOST importantly 4) youve been giving this man a lot of attention and hearing from you has become something he can count on and something that happens many+ times per day. I just want to be with him and would do anything for him. i told him i dont want to meet his mom. bt should i send him msg again and again.. v both are shy type.. or should i wait for him to message me..? The moment he loses interest, he will decide to move on and spend his energies elsewhere. What can I do to make sure he wants me and feels the same. Hey Tracy, We broke up for the second time and than came back after ignoring him, when he came back he refused putting our picture on BBM and so i told him why, he said you keep fighting me while he does all the fighting, and i have no word. Youre still young. He wont text or call anymore and when I do he cuts me off short or just doesnt reply at all. And it can seem even worse after youve been rejected by the guy you like. Im 20 and hes 28. 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